Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love
but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the
house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
Affirming words from moms and dads are like light switches. Speak
a word of affirmation at the right moment in a child's life and it's like lighting up a whole roomful of possibilities.
-- Gary Smalley